On Thistles
I find myself, on occasion,
Pondering thistles;
A peculiar topic
A little threadbare
A paltry preoccupation – not too much there
Spindly, green
Tickle-thick little pricks
Purple-proud maws in a starburst array
Mauve-merry caltrops that will ruin your day
A thistle is off-putting
Jagged and small
Unlikely to inspire awe,
Or anything at all
Won’t attract any suitors,
Attend afternoon tea,
Or even be planted intentionally
Yet, a thistle has no malice
A thistle doesn’t feel the lack of its own need
Doesn’t know that it can sting
Doesn’t know that it is a “weed”
A thistle does not yearn
Does not, “pine for the fjords”
Or dream about blossoming into a rose
A thistle just exists
A thistle just… grows
How to be what it is
Is what a thistle knows.
Not how to be subtle
Or blunt her own edges
No shame in scraping
Or scratching the hedges
How she sticks like a burr–
We could say of her
That it’s really quite clever
For her to have thrived as she has
Given how gangly – ungainly – she grows.
That, “she’s a survivor”
Full of strength and hidden beauty
Unjustly maligned
And misunderstood
Teach others to tend her
For their ultimate good–
But to do so would be a very cruel thing indeed
To project the identity we’d like her to heed
An identity
She never once claimed for herself
To force upon her wishes unuttered
Begrudgingly accommodate her existence
Titrate tinctures of her more palatable portions
And tally the sum total of her tolerable traits
As though we are the sole arbiters of “what’s good”
To judge how worthy the acuteness of her angles,
Force her into – or out of – our gardens
Rather than heed her warnings
Or even note the truth of her degrees–
And we do measure in metric
On the razor’s edge of a millionth of a meter
For she has been honed thus sharply
And she deserves at least that much
Instead, we paint her with pigments–
Such royal hues!
As if any of our pedestrian pageantry
Could soften her sting
Or make her feel at home
Within the daisy-ring
She can do nothing with our critiques!
Arrogant, we, who believe she grew spikes just to spite us
We have forgotten what flowers are for;
That they are not for us
That they do not exist for our pleasure
And our admiration – or lack thereof – is a miserable measure
Of the design
We do not count her in our service
She is not amongst our arms
Nor even numbered to enlist
Stately-sharp her tongue is, and the truth she speaks is this:
We have not been granted the authority to dictate how she’s used
Nor can we even grasp the scope of her mighty function from our view.
Her petals press
Between the pages of our language;
But she will not be trampled thus.
In truth, our dictionary has no merit.
Our plain and petty definitions
Are not hers to inherit.

